Got Cheese

October 28, 2016

Got Cheese?

Like a mouse in a maze…….Cheese is defined as whatever you want in life. 

Don’t got cheese?  I know that’s improper English but you know what I mean.  If you don’t have cheese then Who moved it / where did it go?

Basically we’re talking changes that are bound to happen in life and when they occur how to adjust accordingly.  Life is a series of changes.  To expect things to stay the same ALL THE TIME is unrealistic.  Perhaps you’ve heard the expression:  When life hands you lemons – make lemonade. 

So here’s how you can get to squeezing today.  The question is not “Who moved the cheese? But “What are you going to do about it?”  So Ready, Set, Let’s Go!  Now you’re leaving the maze and having an amazing life! 

Don’t rely on assumptions or take things for granted.  Change is inevitable – expect it!  Be flexible in thoughts and actions.  Embrace the change – don’t fear it.  Use it for a learning opportunity.  Don’t count on things to stay the same, count on them to eventually change.  Your security is not in the circumstances but in your attitude toward the circumstances.  Don’t sleep/dwell on the problem – quickly assess the situation and keep it moving. 

“An inch of action is better than a mile of intention.” – Steve Maraboli

Stay focused on the goal.  No one can stop you but you.  Get out of your own way.

Life is an adventure – Live It!   By moving into action and taking control instead of playing the victim, this empowers you, energizes you and sparks you on to victory!

CONCLUSION

Here are some action steps to take and ensure cheese in your maze.

• Release the fear. Don’t be so afraid of not finding IT / living IT that you don’t even look.  Again, IT being what you want in life.

To review:

• Be flexible in thoughts and actions.
• Don’t overanalyze, keep it moving
• Don’t look back. You’re not going that way!

True happiness is not living in fear of what could go wrong but living in faith of what can go right!

GO FOR IT!

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I'm O.K., You're O.K.

October 21, 2016

I'm O.K., You're O.K.

Big breath in - Big breath out.

Relax

You're on purpose and everything about you is on purpose.  It's all part of the design.

Story: A young man desired to get his mom a very special present for her birthday - "She has everything", he thought.  "What can I get her?"  He thought long and hard then it came to him.  He remembered once seeing a picture of a blown glass sculpture and marveled at how beautiful it was.  "She doesn't have one of these.  I'll get one to put in her display case with the other beautiful things." 
So, he ordered the sculpture online…..    When the package arrived he couldn't wait to open it.  He was shocked.  "What's this?  What are all these odd little bubbles?  I can't give this messed up sculpture to my mom.  I've got time to get a return."    So he did.
When the new box arrived he was glad to have the mistake corrected.  After opening the box, he almost hit the floor.  It wasn't cleared up at all!  Still more bubbles in the sculpture.  "This will never be good enough.  That's enough with this company.  I'm getting my money back!" 

Still liking the glass blown sculpture idea.....   He decided to take a quick trip to Italy to visit the small town where the glass blower lived.  This way he could inspect the gift first, then personally pick out a piece for his mom.  Now being face to face with the glass blower  the young man told him.....  "Create for me something brand new and unflawed."  The glass blower went to work to create something very special.  Upon completion, he presented the sculpture to the young man.  When the young man saw the sculpture he became livid and screamed "More imperfections!!!!!" 
Jumping up and down, yelling and screaming he told his story about the returns and the trip to Italy.  The glass blower just stood there with a big grin on his face.  Well, this angered the young man even more.
"Relax", said the glass blower, let me explain. 
"Have you ever seen leaves from a tree?  "Of course!", said the young man.  "Well", he continued "Are they all alike or different?"  "They are all different, no two alike.", replied the young man.    Continuing on the blower asked, "Have you ever seen snow flakes?"  "Of course!", said the young man  "Are they all alike or different?"    His reply,  "They are all different, no two alike.  Usually, there is something odd about one or the other making it distinctively unique unlike any other in the world."  "Uh oh!", said the young man.  "Exactly", said the glass blower.  "The glass sculptures are not flawed, leaves are not lawed, snowflakes are not flawed, neither are we as people flawed.  What one may see as imperfections or oddities in themselves or others are put there on purpose by the creator to make each individual very special and unique.  It's all part of the design. 

I'm O.K., You're O.K.

Be You to full! 

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B Positive

B Positive

October 19, 2016

A while ago there used to be a song out with the lyrics:  “What the world needs now is love sweet love.  No not just for some but for everyone.”
Well, wouldn’t that be nice?  It’s a true statement but what is also true is:  “What the world needs now is people with a positive attitude.  No not just for some but for everyone.”

A positive attitude has its focus on Yes rather than No.  Yes I can, Yes we can.  That would be nice.  The question now is – How do we find, build and keep that positive focus?   I have three tips to share with you.

“After my house burned down, I saw the moon more clearly.” – is an old Zen saying.    And just the other day I heard someone say – “I am not mad at the roses that have thorns.  I am thankful for the thorns that have roses.”
This leads me to Tip #1……..  Look for the beauty and enjoy the season that you are in.   You see Tip #1 is not an instant quick fix or wave of a magic wand but more like a retraining/shift of the mind.  And yes, the glass is always half full.

ATTITUDE IS EVEYTHING!

Ever had a moment when you were so excited you wanted o Hi 5 yourself?

Try this exercise – The next time you walk past a mirror give yourself a compliment, then give yourself a Hi 5!  Tip #2……… Encourage yourself!!!!!
Now you’re smiling about you – smiling to you.  More song lyrics:  “When you’re smiling, the whole world smiles with you!”

Tip#3………… Focus inward.  Focus on yourself.  WHAT????????? I know we always hear people say the opposite.  Yeah but there is a reason why focusing on others doesn’t always work.  Frankly, sometimes you don’t even like these others BUT you always love you.  So here’s what you do.  In any given situation, take a moment to step INSIDE yourself to imagine how you’d like to be spoken to or treated, then speak to or treat others in like manner.

CONCLUSION:  A positive attitude is attractive and contagious.  Here’s why finding, building and keeping that positive, Yes rather than No focus, will always be a BIG WIN for you!  You’re doing your part to make the world a nicer place and regardless of the type of responses received you will reap good benefits.  Think of it like a bank account.  Every opportunity you take to make positive deposits builds up your account and I guarantee you at some point you will get a great return!!!!

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